Saturday, February 16, 2013

Want To Start A Nonprofit? Here's How

Want To Start A Nonprofit? Here's How

SPECIAL FROM Next Avenue

By Nancy Collamer

A breast cancer survivor’s inspiring story and advice will show you how to create a group that can make a difference

For nearly 10 years, Mary Ann Wasil Nilan of Milford, Conn., played a policewoman fighting villains on "All My Children." But it was her real-life battle against breast cancer afterwards that gave Wasil Nilan her most meaningful professional role.

She's the founder, CEO and president of the Get in Touch Foundation, a nonprofit whose mission is “to encourage gals of all ages to ‘Get in Touch’ with their bodies, information and each other in the crusade against breast cancer."

If you’re passionate about a cause, Wasil Nilan’s inspiring story might motivate you to follow her advice (below) and start a nonprofit of your own.

Turning Lemons Into Lemonade

Wasil Nilan was just 39 when she received a diagnosis of stage 2 breast cancer in 2004. At the time, she was working as director of development for a Catholic school and church. After undergoing chemotherapy, a double mastectomy and reconstructive surgery -- as well as surgery to repair a previously undetected hole in her heart that caused a stroke during her treatments -- she resolved to “turn lemons into lemonade.”

(MORE: Career Shift: My Nonprofit Experience as an Encore Fellow)

As the mother of two adolescent daughters, Betsy and Mary (and a younger son, Eddy), Wasil Nilan decided to find a way to teach young women to “get in touch” with their bodies so they’d be able to recognize any subtle changes that might signal illness and be comfortable enough to let an adult know if they did.

“I immediately began putting pen to paper,” recalls Wasil Nilan. Together with a group of friends, she developed the Get in Touch mission statement and began fundraising.

A Heartfelt Sacrifice

The Internal Revenue Service approved the group's nonprofit status in July 2007 and Wasil Nilan began her full-time job at the Get in Touch Foundation in 2008. “I worked there for quite some time with no salary, but it was a sacrifice worth making,” she says.

(MORE: When Breast Cancer Returns, Now What?)

In 2009, the foundation launched its flagship Get in Touch Girls school-based program and within 24 hours, schools in 23 states had signed up. Its signature tool: the Daisy Wheel, which shows girls in grades 5 to 12 the proper way to do a breast self-exam. Today, the program is offered in all 50 states and 21 countries.

How Justin Bieber Pitched In

Wasil Nilan continues to work tirelessly for her foundation while being treated for a recurrence of her cancer. She has received numerous commendations for her efforts on behalf of women, including Oprah magazine's Cover Girl “Giving Beautiful Back” award. The pop star Justin Bieber even gave the nonprofit a shout-out on Twitter, resulting in more than 21,000 retweets.

The children who inspired Wasil Nilan’s journey are now in college and serve as youth ambassadors for the foundation as time permits. Betsy and Mary attend the University of Virginia; Eddy is at Fairfield University.

(MORE: A Growing Nation of Cancer Survivors)

5 Tips for Starting a Nonprofit

I asked Wasil Nilan to share some tips for others who’d like to create their own nonprofits. Here’s what she said:

  • "Starting a nonprofit requires hard work, patience, and a strong mission to which you must always, always be faithful."

  • "Hire the person who is best suited for the job, not the one who happens to be your best friend."

  • "If you've never written a set of by-laws, take a look at the Girl Scouts of America. Their by-laws are perfect!"

  • "A strategic plan is a living document for a nonprofit and should always be out front guiding you. Update it regularly."

  • "Think big. I always saw Get in Touch as a global multimillion-dollar educational organization. I thought that way when the first Get in Touch office was my kitchen table -- and I think that way now."

Read more on Next Avenue
5 Mistakes to Avoid if You Want a Nonprofit Job
How Women Can Find Work at a Nonprofit
Find a Nonprofit Job Matched to Your Passions

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Friday, February 15, 2013

Dr. Lindsay Jones-Born: How To Prevent Senior Malnourishment

Dr. Lindsay Jones-Born: How To Prevent Senior Malnourishment

Nearly four million seniors are malnourished in the United States, according to The American Academy of Family Physicians. While this number is staggering, it's not surprising. From changing taste buds, to the physical demands of preparing meals, a lack of companionship in some cases and even dental problems that make it uncomfortable to eat, seniors face a plethora of challenges when it comes to maintaining a nutritious diet. As most of us have an elderly loved one in our lives, these statistics are a reminder that we must understand the issues associated with eating well and how we can help.

Recognizing the widespread impact of these problems, I teamed up with A Place for Mom, the nation's largest senior living referral service. As a physician and a daughter, I'm motivated to help this organization shed light on the difficulties our seniors encounter in trying to eat well and how tweaking their diets can vastly improve their health and quality of life.

First things First
When taking stock of your loved one's health, pantries and refrigerators are a good place to start. If they are bare or contain old food, this could be a clue about the way they are eating.

An unusual amount of weight loss or weight gain can also be a sign of malnourishment. Check the fit of their clothing; you may find it's excessively loose or tight. Other signs include unnatural-looking and excessive bruises and wounds that take a long time heal, which can point to a lack of proper food consumption.

How to Help
Education and encouragement can make a difference for seniors who may be struggling. If appetites are low, it is important that meals are packed with essential vitamins and nutrients. Consider incorporating these five essential nutrients and vitamins when planning meals.

Folic Acid
Folic acid helps to decrease the buildup of high blood levels of homocysteine, which can put seniors at risk for heart disease and other chronic illnesses. It is also needed for proper red blood cell production. Foods high in folic acid include: spinach, asparagus, lentils and many fortified breakfast cereals.

B12
B12 helps our bodies synthesize protein and aids in mental function. Many older adults can no longer absorb enough, so increasing B12 rich foods and adding a vitamin supplement should be considered. Recommended foods are: turkey, chicken, beef, eggs, milk, baked salmon, clams, mussels and crab.

Vitamin C
The body's need for vitamin C increases with age. Seniors should incorporate at least five servings of fruits and vegetables a day. Strawberries, oranges, grapefruit, tomatoes, broccoli, red bell pepper and potatoes are all rich in vitamin C.

Vitamin D
As we age, vitamin D can't synthesize in the skin as quickly, but fortunately levels can be boosted by eating foods with quantities like oatmeal, fortified cereal, egg yolk, canned pink salmon, sardines or mackerel, cow's milk or soy milk and orange juice fortified with vitamin D.

Essential Fatty Acids
Fatty acids play a central role in reducing inflammation in the body. The best source is fish, which should be consumed at least two times a week. Flax seeds are also rich in essential fatty acids and can be sprinkled on to a number of dishes, including salads, cereals and smoothies.

Last but not least, seniors need to stay hydrated and should have nine 8-ounce glasses of fluid a day. Water is best.

More information on these vitamins, along with other nutrition tips and recipes, can be found on this helpful Senior Nutrition blog.

Regardless of age, maintaining a healthy, balanced diet can be difficult. Whether grocery shopping together or assisting in meal planning, supporting a loved one can have a big impact on his or her choices and quality of life -- and maybe your own as well.

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  • Join A Support Group

    Talking with other people who face the same daily challenges can help caregivers manage stress. Specific types of support groups can vary on a community-by-community basis; check out this Caregiver.com <a href="http://www.caregiver.com/regionalresources/index.htm">guide</a> to find the right program for you.

  • Join An Online Support Group

    Caregivers have their hands full and may not have the time to meet with an in-person support group. In that case, <a href="http://www.aarp.org/online-community/groups/index.action?slGroupKey=Group92">an online support group</a> can be a great alternative. <a href="https://www.manystrong.com/?utm_source=aarp&utm_medium=link&utm_campaign=caregiving">

  • Check Out A Message Board

    Support groups not your thing? You can see what other people are saying about caregiving by just checking out a <a href="http://www.aarp.org/online-community/forums.action/relationships_caregiving_anyone-talk-their-parents">simple message board, such as this one sponsored by AARP.</a>.

  • Get Some Help

    You may need to attend an event or simply seek a few hours for some much-needed rest. Eldercare.net offers a <a href="http://archrespite.org/search-for-respite">Search For Respite Tool</a> or <a href="http://www.eldercare.gov/Eldercare.NET/Public/Index.aspx">Eldercare Locator</a> where you can find professional help. Also check out this <a href="http://www.caring.com/articles/more-ways-to-arrange-breaks-from-caregiving">guide</a> from caring.com for more respite-care ideas.

  • Find An Alternative Transportation Option

    Does your loved one need transportation to go buy food or go shopping? There are numerous van and shuttle services specifically for seniors. Contact your local <a href="http://www.services4aging.org/index.asp">Area Agency On Aging</a> for one near you.

  • Utilize Food Services

    Don't have time to shop and cook? Consider a <a href="http://www.beetnikfoods.com/?gclid=CNm7hsXX27MCFQ-e4Aod3G8Axw">service</a> that will deliver gourmet meals to your home, no matter where you live. For low-income seniors in need, AssistGuide Information Services offers a <a href="http://www.agis.com/Eldercare-Basics/Support-Services/Food-and-Meal-Services/default.aspx#3">directory of food services available.

  • Tap Financial Support

    During the 2009 economic downturn, 1 in 5 family caregivers said their finances were so strained that they were forced to move into the same home with their aging loved ones to reduce expenses, <a href="http://www.caregiving.org/data/EVC_Caregivers_Economy_Report%20FINAL_4-28-09.pdf">according to a survey by caregiving.org</a>. Some 47 percent of working caregivers indicate that an increase in caregiving expenses caused them to use up all or most of their savings. The <a href="https://www.manystrong.com/">Many Strong Support Network</a> has a fundraising tool which allows other people to anonymously donate funds to people who are under financial strain.

  • Contact A Caregiving Hotline

    If ever you have a question about resources, or need support at a moment's notice, AARP's caregiving support line is available at 1-877-333-5885, Monday through Friday, 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Senior care advisors for <a href="http://www.care.com/senior-care-planning">Care.com</a>, also provide free counseling for caregivers, and help them map out the best course of care for their loved ones.

  • Join A Caregiver Co-Op

    Organized caregiver co-ops can provide an affordable way to coordinate care for your loved ones. Check with local community centers or this <a href="http://www.caring.com/local/adult-day-care">Adult Day Care Directory</a> to see if someone in your area has already started one.

  • Find Housekeeping Help

    Care.com's <a href="http://www.care.com/senior-care-directory-find-p1071.html">Senior Care Directory</a> can set you up with a housekeeper, errand runner, pet sitter, or whatever you need to make the caregiving experience a little more manageable.

  • Reach Out To A Hospital Social Worker

    According to author of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Medical-Day-Planner-Guide-Navigate/dp/1936608774">"The Medical Day Planner"</a>, Tory Zellick, hospital social workers are a great resource for all caregivers. "[Hospital social workers] are always armed with information for your community," said Zellick.

  • Join A Caregiving Community

    Websites like <a href="http://www.lotsahelpinghands.com/">Lotsahelpinghands</a> have caregiving communities that connect volunteers with caregivers in need of support or help.

  • Use Family Gatherings To Have Important Conversations

    Family gatherings offer a great opportunity to discuss the future of loved one you care for, says Dr. Bruce Chernof, president and CEO of The SCAN Foundation. The group offers a guide -- "<a href="http://www.thescanfoundation.org/sites/thescanfoundation.org/files/TSF_Ten_Conversations_English.pdf">10 Conversations To Plan For Aging With Dignity And Independence</a>" -- to lay the groundwork for these critical discussions.


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Thursday, February 14, 2013

The Aging Process And Cure

As we get older, we tend to begin showing the signs of age by the time we are in our mid-twenties. At first, it may be a little bit stressful when we see a small wrinkle here are their as we get older, that stress level may increase rapidly. After all, not all of us age gracefully and we are not all interested in having other people guess our age because of the wrinkles and lines that are on her face. Full article